Choosing an engagement ring is a big decision. It represents love, commitment, and the start of a shared future. While surprising your partner with a proposal is exciting, understanding their style and preferences is key to picking a ring they'll truly cherish.

Traditional metals like gold and platinum are no longer the only options—more couples today are turning to unique materials and designs that reflect their values and personal stories.

In this guide, we’ll walk you through how to buy an engagement ring with a focus on natural wood materials, custom inlays, and meaningful styles that reflect the individuality of the person who will wear it.

Material: Choosing the Right Wood

Why Wood?

Wood engagement rings are ideal for the eco-conscious and those who feel at home in the outdoors. These rings provide a warm, organic alternative to traditional metals and celebrate the uniqueness of natural materials.

Color and Grain Patterns

Every wood species offers its own character:

• Koa Wood – Bold, dark grain lines. Sustainably sourced from Hawaii and rich in symbolism.
• Rosewood – Deep brown hues with swirling grain, romantic and refined.
• Maple – Light and subtle, perfect for minimalist aesthetics.

Symbolism and Strength

Each wood tells a story. For instance:

• Koa – Strength and resilience (used in ancient Hawaiian canoes and tools).
• Oak – Endurance and protection.
• Teak – Exotic, bold, and long-lasting.

Learn more about wood symbolism here →

Style: Finding the Right Look

Minimalist

Perfect for those who value simplicity and elegance. A clean wood band with subtle detailing offers timeless appeal.

Bold

Wider bands, contrasting grains, or dark woods make a striking statement while remaining grounded and organic.

Creative

Abstract designs, color layering, or symbolic engravings are ideal for the artist or adventurer in your life.

Focus on Inlay Options

Types of Inlay Designs

• Simple Channel Inlays – Clean, modern, and minimalist.
• Elaborate Designs – Mountain ranges, ocean waves, and natural scenes for the nature lover.
• Custom Designs – Share your idea through our custom ring form and we'll bring it to life.

Popular Inlay Materials

• Lavender – Romantic and calming.
• Malachite – Rich green for renewal and growth.
• Turquoise – Uplifting and spiritual.
• Black Tourmaline – Modern and grounding.

Sentimental Inlay Options

• Ashes of a Loved One or Pet – A deeply personal way to carry memories forward.
• Guitar Strings – A nod to musicians and music lovers.
• Mixed Woods – Combine different wood types to tell a layered story.
• Birthstones – Symbolic, beautiful, and always personal.

Have a unique idea? Contact us to see if we can incorporate your custom material.

Sizing and Fit

Why Sizing Matters

Getting the right size ensures comfort and practicality. We offer a complimentary 30-day resizing service, but getting it right the first time saves time and hassle.

Use our ring sizing guide or visit a local jeweler to double-check sizing.

Width Considerations

Wider bands may fit more snugly even at the same ring size. Try on similar width rings if possible to find your perfect feel.

Now You Know How to Buy a Custom Engagement Ring

Buying an engagement ring isn’t about checking a box—it’s about choosing a meaningful piece that reflects your partner’s values and the story you’re building together.

At My Roots Jewelry, we specialize in custom wood rings that blend artistry with personal significance. Whether you're after something minimalist, bold, or deeply symbolic, we’ll help bring your vision to life.

💬 Ready to Get Started?

Fill out our custom ring form or reach out to our team today. Let’s create a ring that tells your story.