Promise rings have long symbolized commitment, affection, and personal milestones—but what exactly are promise rings? Are they just pre-engagement rings, or do they hold a deeper meaning? In this post, we’ll unpack what promise rings really are, explore who they’re for, when they’re given, and how they differ from other symbolic rings like engagement or wedding rings.

What Is a Promise Ring?

A promise ring is a piece of jewelry that symbolizes a meaningful promise between two people. Most commonly, it’s given as a sign of romantic commitment, especially when a couple isn’t yet ready for engagement or marriage. It’s a way of saying, “I’m serious about us,” without needing a formal proposal.

But promise rings go beyond romance. They can also represent a commitment to oneself—a personal goal, a spiritual journey, a reminder of a promise made. At My Roots Jewelry, we’ve crafted rings for couples, friends, family members, and even individuals making personal pledges. Each one tells a different story.

Who Are Promise Rings For?

Anyone can wear or give a promise ring. While often exchanged in romantic relationships, they can also be meaningful gifts between:

• Parents and children

• Best friends

• Siblings

• Individuals marking personal milestones

Promise rings are for anyone who wants a physical, lasting reminder of a vow, a memory, or an intention.

How Are Promise Rings Different From Engagement Rings?

Engagement rings typically signal a formal intention to marry, often accompanied by a proposal. Promise rings don’t carry that same weight or timeline. Instead, they represent commitment without pressure. They’re often given when a couple is still growing together—maybe they’re long-distance, focused on school or careers, or simply enjoying their relationship as it evolves.

When’s the Right Time to Give a Promise Ring?

There’s no rulebook. Promise rings are often given:

• On anniversaries or birthdays

• Before a couple moves apart

• To mark a new phase in a relationship

• As a gesture of reconciliation or recommitment

We’ve seen people give promise rings to celebrate sobriety, a career path, or a personal promise. One customer—a pre-med student—asked us to create a custom ring featuring a heartbeat line to remind him daily of his goal to become a doctor.

Do Men Wear Promise Rings Too?

Absolutely. Promise rings are not gendered. In fact, our next two posts will explore how promise rings are designed and worn specifically for her and for him. Stay tuned as we dive into meaningful styles and stories behind each.

Now You Know What Promise Rings Are

Promise rings are about intention. Whether romantic, familial, or personal, they carry deep meaning and symbolism for the wearer. If you're considering giving a promise ring, remember—it’s not about rules or expectations. It’s about making a moment tangible and lasting.

Ready to explore? Browse our handcrafted promise rings or design your own.